每次和老外聊两句就没话说了怎么办?
我们身边总有这么一两个朋友,一开口就能把你噎死,就是传说中的“话题终结者”。在英语中,话题终结者也被叫作topic killer,直译这个短语为“杀死话题的人”,可以说是很形象了。 6park.com He's a well-known topic killer. It's embarrassing to chat with him. 6park.com他是众所周知的话题终结者,和他聊天好尴尬。
How to save a topic killer? 6park.com 如何拯救一个话题终结者呢? 6park.com那我们应该怎样用英语结束尬聊,不做一个“topic killer”? 6park.com英语不太好的我们,往往都只会用“Goodbye!” “Bye!”来结束话题。 6park.com但是我们跟别人这么说的话,真的会很突兀!又会让人觉得你无话可说...... 6park.com试着想想,如果别人说着一个话题,你接不下去,直接来一句“Goodbye!”现场氛围绝对无比怪异! 6park.com当你在跟一个人聊天,发现自己突然有事真的需要离开,却不知道如何结束谈话时; 6park.com当你觉得和他聊天很无趣,但又不能直接开口拒绝时; 6park.com这时候究竟该怎么说啊?
直接说goodbye太突兀 6park.com 一种常见的方式是,告诉别人你还有别的事要做,然后顺理成章又礼貌地就可以结束对话啦~ 6park.comWell, nice to meet you here, but I really have to go. I'll see you soon. 6park.com和你聊天很开心,但我真得走了,回聊! 6park.comAlright, I have an appointment this afternoon. I'll see you around sometime. 6park.com好了,我下午约了人,我们下次见啦。 6park.com要注意两句例句中 “再见” 的不同表达方式哦!不要只会说一个goodbye啦!
See you next time 6park.com 下次见、有空约 6park.com我们都知道,有时候“下次见、有空约”大概率就是再也不见,再也不约。 6park.com所以,另一种礼貌地结束对话的方式就是,告诉对方现在正忙,并约定等一下或者下次有空联系TA。 6park.com假设你的确会再次约见对方,这样说也很合理,既不耽误自己的时间,又尊重对方。 6park.comPlease excuse me…I have to hurry home to cook. See you next time. 6park.com不好意思...我要赶着回家做饭。咱们有空再见! 6park.comBro, I'm really sorry but I've got a lot of work to do right now, Can we talk after work? 6park.com兄弟,很抱歉我现在有很多工作要做,我们能下班再聊吗?
想不出理由怎么办? 6park.com 如果你真的想不出理由结束对话,还有一种更加简单的方式: 6park.comWell, it's been nice talking to you, but I really have to go. I'll see you soon. 6park.com和你聊天很开心,但我真得走了,回聊! 6park.com怎么样,是不是礼貌又干净利落,让对方不得不放你走呢~
转移话题 6park.com 当你不着急结束对话,但是对方一直揪着同一个话题,不停地反复地跟你说。 6park.com而你又想扭转尬聊局面时,这时候就需要转移话题了。 6park.com用我们熟悉的几个中文句式,巧妙地转移话题:
■ 我们换个话题吧 6park.com Let's talk about something else. 6park.comLet's talk about something different. 6park.comI'd rather talk about something else. 6park.comLet’s drop the subject!
■ 这事儿以后再说吧 6park.com Let's drop it. 6park.comLet's talk about it later. 6park.comLet's drop the subject.
■ 言归正传 6park.com Let's get back to the subject. 6park.comLet's get back to the point. 6park.comLet's get back on track.
■ 顺便说一句 6park.com By the way
■ 说到这里 6park.com Since you brought that up. 6park.comSince we are on that/the subject. 6park.comOn that note.
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